
The Shared Ground
The Shared Ground
Connecting with others through the underlying silence that connects all things.
Connecting with others through the underlying silence that connects all things.
May 20, 2025
May 20, 2025


The ultimate expression of spiritual wellbeing is found in the way we meet another human being. While we often view our internal work as a private endeavor, the depth we uncover is meant to be lived in the space between ourselves and others. We frequently move through our social lives from a place of defense or projection, seeing people through the lens of our own needs and histories. True presence allows us to drop these filters and meet the world from a shared ground. This is the realization that the stillness within us is the same stillness that resides within everyone else.
Authentic connection requires a stable base. When we are not sufficiently inhabited, we tend to look to others to provide the security or the fulfillment we feel we lack. This creates a subtle tension in our relationships, as we are constantly reaching for something outside of ourselves. By establishing a grounded vessel, we become capable of being with others without losing our own center. We can listen with a quiet mind and respond from a place of genuine availability. This stability allows the shared ground to reveal itself, turning a simple conversation into an experience of mutual recognition.
This way of relating is a profound act of spiritual integrity. It is the commitment to remaining open even when the interaction is challenging or the other person is in distress. Instead of reacting from a place of contraction, we stay rooted in our own presence. This offers a silent invitation for the other person to settle into their own nature. Our stability becomes a gift that we offer to the field of the relationship. We find that the more we are at home within ourselves, the more we can help others feel at home in our presence.
"Base & Being aims to cultivate deeply rooted stability and presence through the entirety of our being. We teach attunements to deepen spiritual wellbeing and build resilience for everyday life."
Living from the shared ground changes the nature of our community. We stop seeing people as separate entities to be managed or influenced and start seeing them as expressions of the same fundamental reality. This perspective fosters a natural compassion and a deep sense of belonging. We recognize that our own wellbeing is inextricably linked to the wellbeing of those around us. This is the practical application of the infinite. It is the ability to maintain our spiritual depth while navigating the complex emotions and dynamics of human connection.
The shared ground is always present, waiting to be acknowledged. It is found in the silence between words and the warmth of a steady gaze. When we prioritize this connection, our lives become a testament to the unity of existence. We move through the world with the understanding that every encounter is an opportunity to deepen our practice. This is the fulfillment of our journey as humans. We are here to be fully present, fully grounded, and fully connected, realizing that we are all standing on the same sacred earth.
The ultimate expression of spiritual wellbeing is found in the way we meet another human being. While we often view our internal work as a private endeavor, the depth we uncover is meant to be lived in the space between ourselves and others. We frequently move through our social lives from a place of defense or projection, seeing people through the lens of our own needs and histories. True presence allows us to drop these filters and meet the world from a shared ground. This is the realization that the stillness within us is the same stillness that resides within everyone else.
Authentic connection requires a stable base. When we are not sufficiently inhabited, we tend to look to others to provide the security or the fulfillment we feel we lack. This creates a subtle tension in our relationships, as we are constantly reaching for something outside of ourselves. By establishing a grounded vessel, we become capable of being with others without losing our own center. We can listen with a quiet mind and respond from a place of genuine availability. This stability allows the shared ground to reveal itself, turning a simple conversation into an experience of mutual recognition.
This way of relating is a profound act of spiritual integrity. It is the commitment to remaining open even when the interaction is challenging or the other person is in distress. Instead of reacting from a place of contraction, we stay rooted in our own presence. This offers a silent invitation for the other person to settle into their own nature. Our stability becomes a gift that we offer to the field of the relationship. We find that the more we are at home within ourselves, the more we can help others feel at home in our presence.
"Base & Being aims to cultivate deeply rooted stability and presence through the entirety of our being. We teach attunements to deepen spiritual wellbeing and build resilience for everyday life."
Living from the shared ground changes the nature of our community. We stop seeing people as separate entities to be managed or influenced and start seeing them as expressions of the same fundamental reality. This perspective fosters a natural compassion and a deep sense of belonging. We recognize that our own wellbeing is inextricably linked to the wellbeing of those around us. This is the practical application of the infinite. It is the ability to maintain our spiritual depth while navigating the complex emotions and dynamics of human connection.
The shared ground is always present, waiting to be acknowledged. It is found in the silence between words and the warmth of a steady gaze. When we prioritize this connection, our lives become a testament to the unity of existence. We move through the world with the understanding that every encounter is an opportunity to deepen our practice. This is the fulfillment of our journey as humans. We are here to be fully present, fully grounded, and fully connected, realizing that we are all standing on the same sacred earth.
- Aron Weber, Founder of Base & Being
- Aron Weber, Founder of Base & Being
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Frequently Asked Questions.
Some answers to some of the most common questions. Didn't find your answer? Send me a message.
Who is this for?
Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.
Who is this for?
Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.
Who is this not for?
Who is this not for?
Individuals in acute crisis, if you are in psychiatric treatment or have recently been, if you lose time or cannot recall parts of conversations, if you are currently destabilized ie. from a retreat.
In such a situation it means that I cannot be of help and that other things should be prioritized first. If I notice, I may point you towards people who are in a position to support you. This is coaching and not therapy and I do not diagnose or treat anything.
How is this different from therapy?
How is this different from therapy?
Most therapy builds insight, regulation or a corrective relationship over time. In therapy clients learn to understand their past and manage their pattern better. Therapy often work with the past and often with individuals who struggle to function in their day to day life.
What I do is coaching. I care about what is still present and how beliefs shape todays experiences of my clients. I also work narrower: I track one belief which my client decides to work on, and work toward resolving it rather than managing it. I work with stable clients functioning in day to day life.
I don‘t do clinical work. I am not a therapist, counsellor or mental health professional. I do not diagnose or treat people.
Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?
Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?
Nope. Your teacher guides your practice and your therapist covers ground that I cannot cover. We work on a specific belief that results in undesirable patterns and can do this alongside whatever support network you may have in place.
If you are in therapy, its worth telling your therapist about it, as its good that the people who support you closely know whats happening. Also, I would be grateful to hear if you work with a therapist.
As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?
As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?
Not much preparation needed. A quiet room without distraction and preferably nothing heavy or big right after the call. I suggest an extra 15 minute spare time at minimum just to let things settle but its not mandatory at all. I had clients move on to meetings right after the call and that worked for them as well. I prefer to take things easy afterwards and so I suggest similar to my clients.
Headphones help. A stable internet connection and functioning camera matter more.
If you have a clear pattern on your mind for the session, great, if not we‘ll get there together.
What if I don't know what my pattern is?
What if I don't know what my pattern is?
thats okey. Most people don‘t know it precisely. Knowing that something is stuck is good enough and we can work with that. Finding whats below this is part of the work I do so its not at all expected, though some people come in with clarity already. Both is fine.
Frequently Asked Questions.
Some answers to some of the most common questions. Didn't find your answer? Send me a message.
Who is this for?
Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.
Who is this for?
Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.
Who is this not for?
Who is this not for?
Individuals in acute crisis, if you are in psychiatric treatment or have recently been, if you lose time or cannot recall parts of conversations, if you are currently destabilized ie. from a retreat.
In such a situation it means that I cannot be of help and that other things should be prioritized first. If I notice, I may point you towards people who are in a position to support you. This is coaching and not therapy and I do not diagnose or treat anything.
How is this different from therapy?
How is this different from therapy?
Most therapy builds insight, regulation or a corrective relationship over time. In therapy clients learn to understand their past and manage their pattern better. Therapy often work with the past and often with individuals who struggle to function in their day to day life.
What I do is coaching. I care about what is still present and how beliefs shape todays experiences of my clients. I also work narrower: I track one belief which my client decides to work on, and work toward resolving it rather than managing it. I work with stable clients functioning in day to day life.
I don‘t do clinical work. I am not a therapist, counsellor or mental health professional. I do not diagnose or treat people.
Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?
Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?
Nope. Your teacher guides your practice and your therapist covers ground that I cannot cover. We work on a specific belief that results in undesirable patterns and can do this alongside whatever support network you may have in place.
If you are in therapy, its worth telling your therapist about it, as its good that the people who support you closely know whats happening. Also, I would be grateful to hear if you work with a therapist.
As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?
As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?
Not much preparation needed. A quiet room without distraction and preferably nothing heavy or big right after the call. I suggest an extra 15 minute spare time at minimum just to let things settle but its not mandatory at all. I had clients move on to meetings right after the call and that worked for them as well. I prefer to take things easy afterwards and so I suggest similar to my clients.
Headphones help. A stable internet connection and functioning camera matter more.
If you have a clear pattern on your mind for the session, great, if not we‘ll get there together.
What if I don't know what my pattern is?
What if I don't know what my pattern is?
thats okey. Most people don‘t know it precisely. Knowing that something is stuck is good enough and we can work with that. Finding whats below this is part of the work I do so its not at all expected, though some people come in with clarity already. Both is fine.
Frequently Asked Questions.
Some answers to some of the most common questions. Didn't find your answer? Send me a message.
Who is this for?
Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.
Who is this for?
Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.
Who is this not for?
Who is this not for?
Individuals in acute crisis, if you are in psychiatric treatment or have recently been, if you lose time or cannot recall parts of conversations, if you are currently destabilized ie. from a retreat.
In such a situation it means that I cannot be of help and that other things should be prioritized first. If I notice, I may point you towards people who are in a position to support you. This is coaching and not therapy and I do not diagnose or treat anything.
How is this different from therapy?
How is this different from therapy?
Most therapy builds insight, regulation or a corrective relationship over time. In therapy clients learn to understand their past and manage their pattern better. Therapy often work with the past and often with individuals who struggle to function in their day to day life.
What I do is coaching. I care about what is still present and how beliefs shape todays experiences of my clients. I also work narrower: I track one belief which my client decides to work on, and work toward resolving it rather than managing it. I work with stable clients functioning in day to day life.
I don‘t do clinical work. I am not a therapist, counsellor or mental health professional. I do not diagnose or treat people.
Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?
Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?
Nope. Your teacher guides your practice and your therapist covers ground that I cannot cover. We work on a specific belief that results in undesirable patterns and can do this alongside whatever support network you may have in place.
If you are in therapy, its worth telling your therapist about it, as its good that the people who support you closely know whats happening. Also, I would be grateful to hear if you work with a therapist.
As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?
As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?
Not much preparation needed. A quiet room without distraction and preferably nothing heavy or big right after the call. I suggest an extra 15 minute spare time at minimum just to let things settle but its not mandatory at all. I had clients move on to meetings right after the call and that worked for them as well. I prefer to take things easy afterwards and so I suggest similar to my clients.
Headphones help. A stable internet connection and functioning camera matter more.
If you have a clear pattern on your mind for the session, great, if not we‘ll get there together.
What if I don't know what my pattern is?
What if I don't know what my pattern is?
thats okey. Most people don‘t know it precisely. Knowing that something is stuck is good enough and we can work with that. Finding whats below this is part of the work I do so its not at all expected, though some people come in with clarity already. Both is fine.

