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Presence in the Ordinary

Presence in the Ordinary

Recognizing the depth that hums beneath the surface of the mundane.

Recognizing the depth that hums beneath the surface of the mundane.

June 21, 2025

June 21, 2025

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The pursuit of spiritual depth often leads us to seek out extraordinary experiences or secluded environments. We imagine that presence is something reserved for the peaks of mountains or the stillness of a sanctuary. This creates a subtle distance between our spiritual life and the reality of our daily existence. True wellbeing is found when we realize that the ordinary is the most direct doorway to the infinite. Presence is not a state to be achieved in isolation; it is a quality of being that can be inhabited while washing dishes, walking through a crowd, or sitting in a meeting.

The ordinary moments of our lives are the true testing ground for our stability. It is easy to feel centered when the world is quiet and our responsibilities are few. The challenge and the opportunity lie in maintaining that same connection to the ground of being amidst the noise and movement of a busy day. When we bring our attention to the simple physical sensations of the moment, the mundane begins to vibrate with a different quality. The weight of the body, the texture of an object, or the sound of the wind become anchors that keep us from drifting into the abstractions of the mind.

This way of living requires a shift in our values. We often rush through the small tasks of life in order to reach the big events. We treat the commute as a nuisance and the chores as a distraction. When we practice presence in the ordinary, we stop seeing these moments as obstacles. We recognize that every second of our lives is an opportunity to settle into our nature. This perspective transforms the fabric of our day. The ordinary is no longer a background to be ignored, but the very soil in which our awareness grows.

"Deepening in practice is deepening in acceptance. When we truly meet life as it is, our perspectives naturally shift. It is a process that takes time, and a journey worthy of every step."

A person who is present in the ordinary possesses a quiet, unshakeable power. They do not need the world to be a certain way to feel whole. Their stability is rooted in the recognition that the ground of being is always present, regardless of the activity at hand. This realization brings a profound sense of freedom. We are no longer dependent on special circumstances to feel connected to the depth. We find that the most profound stillness is often found in the most common places. This is the integration of the sky and the soil in its most practical form.

Living this way makes our lives feel full and significant. We stop waiting for the next big thing and begin to appreciate the richness of what is already here. Our presence becomes a steady gift to ourselves and to everyone we encounter. We move through the world with a sense of ease, knowing that every moment is a valid expression of the whole. It is the simple, beautiful act of being fully human, right here in the middle of everything.

The pursuit of spiritual depth often leads us to seek out extraordinary experiences or secluded environments. We imagine that presence is something reserved for the peaks of mountains or the stillness of a sanctuary. This creates a subtle distance between our spiritual life and the reality of our daily existence. True wellbeing is found when we realize that the ordinary is the most direct doorway to the infinite. Presence is not a state to be achieved in isolation; it is a quality of being that can be inhabited while washing dishes, walking through a crowd, or sitting in a meeting.

The ordinary moments of our lives are the true testing ground for our stability. It is easy to feel centered when the world is quiet and our responsibilities are few. The challenge and the opportunity lie in maintaining that same connection to the ground of being amidst the noise and movement of a busy day. When we bring our attention to the simple physical sensations of the moment, the mundane begins to vibrate with a different quality. The weight of the body, the texture of an object, or the sound of the wind become anchors that keep us from drifting into the abstractions of the mind.

This way of living requires a shift in our values. We often rush through the small tasks of life in order to reach the big events. We treat the commute as a nuisance and the chores as a distraction. When we practice presence in the ordinary, we stop seeing these moments as obstacles. We recognize that every second of our lives is an opportunity to settle into our nature. This perspective transforms the fabric of our day. The ordinary is no longer a background to be ignored, but the very soil in which our awareness grows.

"Deepening in practice is deepening in acceptance. When we truly meet life as it is, our perspectives naturally shift. It is a process that takes time, and a journey worthy of every step."

A person who is present in the ordinary possesses a quiet, unshakeable power. They do not need the world to be a certain way to feel whole. Their stability is rooted in the recognition that the ground of being is always present, regardless of the activity at hand. This realization brings a profound sense of freedom. We are no longer dependent on special circumstances to feel connected to the depth. We find that the most profound stillness is often found in the most common places. This is the integration of the sky and the soil in its most practical form.

Living this way makes our lives feel full and significant. We stop waiting for the next big thing and begin to appreciate the richness of what is already here. Our presence becomes a steady gift to ourselves and to everyone we encounter. We move through the world with a sense of ease, knowing that every moment is a valid expression of the whole. It is the simple, beautiful act of being fully human, right here in the middle of everything.

- Aron Weber, Founder of Base & Being

- Aron Weber, Founder of Base & Being

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Frequently Asked Questions.

Some answers to some of the most common questions. Didn't find your answer? Send me a message.

Who is this for?

Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.

Who is this for?

Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.

Who is this not for?

Who is this not for?

Individuals in acute crisis, if you are in psychiatric treatment or have recently been, if you lose time or cannot recall parts of conversations, if you are currently destabilized ie. from a retreat.

In such a situation it means that I cannot be of help and that other things should be prioritized first. If I notice, I may point you towards people who are in a position to support you. This is coaching and not therapy and I do not diagnose or treat anything.


How is this different from therapy?

How is this different from therapy?

Most therapy builds insight, regulation or a corrective relationship over time. In therapy clients learn to understand their past and manage their pattern better. Therapy often work with the past and often with individuals who struggle to function in their day to day life.

What I do is coaching. I care about what is still present and how beliefs shape todays experiences of my clients. I also work narrower: I track one belief which my client decides to work on, and work toward resolving it rather than managing it. I work with stable clients functioning in day to day life.

I don‘t do clinical work. I am not a therapist, counsellor or mental health professional. I do not diagnose or treat people.

Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?

Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?

Nope. Your teacher guides your practice and your therapist covers ground that I cannot cover. We work on a specific belief that results in undesirable patterns and can do this alongside whatever support network you may have in place.

If you are in therapy, its worth telling your therapist about it, as its good that the people who support you closely know whats happening. Also, I would be grateful to hear if you work with a therapist.

As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?

As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?

Not much preparation needed. A quiet room without distraction and preferably nothing heavy or big right after the call. I suggest an extra 15 minute spare time at minimum just to let things settle but its not mandatory at all. I had clients move on to meetings right after the call and that worked for them as well. I prefer to take things easy afterwards and so I suggest similar to my clients.

Headphones help. A stable internet connection and functioning camera matter more.

If you have a clear pattern on your mind for the session, great, if not we‘ll get there together.

What if I don't know what my pattern is?

What if I don't know what my pattern is?

thats okey. Most people don‘t know it precisely. Knowing that something is stuck is good enough and we can work with that. Finding whats below this is part of the work I do so its not at all expected, though some people come in with clarity already. Both is fine.

Frequently Asked Questions.

Some answers to some of the most common questions. Didn't find your answer? Send me a message.

Who is this for?

Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.

Who is this for?

Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.

Who is this not for?

Who is this not for?

Individuals in acute crisis, if you are in psychiatric treatment or have recently been, if you lose time or cannot recall parts of conversations, if you are currently destabilized ie. from a retreat.

In such a situation it means that I cannot be of help and that other things should be prioritized first. If I notice, I may point you towards people who are in a position to support you. This is coaching and not therapy and I do not diagnose or treat anything.


How is this different from therapy?

How is this different from therapy?

Most therapy builds insight, regulation or a corrective relationship over time. In therapy clients learn to understand their past and manage their pattern better. Therapy often work with the past and often with individuals who struggle to function in their day to day life.

What I do is coaching. I care about what is still present and how beliefs shape todays experiences of my clients. I also work narrower: I track one belief which my client decides to work on, and work toward resolving it rather than managing it. I work with stable clients functioning in day to day life.

I don‘t do clinical work. I am not a therapist, counsellor or mental health professional. I do not diagnose or treat people.

Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?

Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?

Nope. Your teacher guides your practice and your therapist covers ground that I cannot cover. We work on a specific belief that results in undesirable patterns and can do this alongside whatever support network you may have in place.

If you are in therapy, its worth telling your therapist about it, as its good that the people who support you closely know whats happening. Also, I would be grateful to hear if you work with a therapist.

As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?

As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?

Not much preparation needed. A quiet room without distraction and preferably nothing heavy or big right after the call. I suggest an extra 15 minute spare time at minimum just to let things settle but its not mandatory at all. I had clients move on to meetings right after the call and that worked for them as well. I prefer to take things easy afterwards and so I suggest similar to my clients.

Headphones help. A stable internet connection and functioning camera matter more.

If you have a clear pattern on your mind for the session, great, if not we‘ll get there together.

What if I don't know what my pattern is?

What if I don't know what my pattern is?

thats okey. Most people don‘t know it precisely. Knowing that something is stuck is good enough and we can work with that. Finding whats below this is part of the work I do so its not at all expected, though some people come in with clarity already. Both is fine.

Frequently Asked Questions.

Some answers to some of the most common questions. Didn't find your answer? Send me a message.

Who is this for?

Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.

Who is this for?

Experienced practitioners who keep meeting the same pattern which practice could not resolve. A willingness and openness and curiosity to look at your own experience will be helpful.

Who is this not for?

Who is this not for?

Individuals in acute crisis, if you are in psychiatric treatment or have recently been, if you lose time or cannot recall parts of conversations, if you are currently destabilized ie. from a retreat.

In such a situation it means that I cannot be of help and that other things should be prioritized first. If I notice, I may point you towards people who are in a position to support you. This is coaching and not therapy and I do not diagnose or treat anything.


How is this different from therapy?

How is this different from therapy?

Most therapy builds insight, regulation or a corrective relationship over time. In therapy clients learn to understand their past and manage their pattern better. Therapy often work with the past and often with individuals who struggle to function in their day to day life.

What I do is coaching. I care about what is still present and how beliefs shape todays experiences of my clients. I also work narrower: I track one belief which my client decides to work on, and work toward resolving it rather than managing it. I work with stable clients functioning in day to day life.

I don‘t do clinical work. I am not a therapist, counsellor or mental health professional. I do not diagnose or treat people.

Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?

Should I stop working with my teacher or therapist?

Nope. Your teacher guides your practice and your therapist covers ground that I cannot cover. We work on a specific belief that results in undesirable patterns and can do this alongside whatever support network you may have in place.

If you are in therapy, its worth telling your therapist about it, as its good that the people who support you closely know whats happening. Also, I would be grateful to hear if you work with a therapist.

As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?

As it is online, how do i best prepare for the session?

Not much preparation needed. A quiet room without distraction and preferably nothing heavy or big right after the call. I suggest an extra 15 minute spare time at minimum just to let things settle but its not mandatory at all. I had clients move on to meetings right after the call and that worked for them as well. I prefer to take things easy afterwards and so I suggest similar to my clients.

Headphones help. A stable internet connection and functioning camera matter more.

If you have a clear pattern on your mind for the session, great, if not we‘ll get there together.

What if I don't know what my pattern is?

What if I don't know what my pattern is?

thats okey. Most people don‘t know it precisely. Knowing that something is stuck is good enough and we can work with that. Finding whats below this is part of the work I do so its not at all expected, though some people come in with clarity already. Both is fine.